Proverbs 31:3 Do not give your strength to women, Or your ways to that which destroys kings.
Gentlemen, we need concrete facts and a solution to navigate our reality, language is always up for debate, but actions provide stability. Boldly, a stable platform will make your life so epic and legendary that your focus rarely shifts toward wanting female attention or missing her paradigm. When you require her, disrupting your flow, you disconnect from your manhood and the Vibration of love. It's okay to feel and enjoy her Aura, but true passions come and go. Brothers, we have two critical life choices: live life like a lamb or a lion. Honestly, women enjoy the company of Lions; these men take care of themselves and rarely need the company of others; they watch the woman come in and out of their lives with very little attachment. On the other hand, if you choose to roam the path of least resistance and live like a lion, she will feed you and witness a king well on his way to independence, freedom, and a higher self. When a woman comes to you, she must witness a man living a life full of mystery, magic and adventure. So, when she leaves you physically, mentally or emotionally, she will miss something unique that separates you from all other men. Don't be a skirt chaser; they have tremendous mother problems with serious beta templates; women do not want to change a man's diaper; besides, she deals with these types of men daily. Ultimately, a man anchored in his alpha tone waits for the lioness to come to him; she will sense confidence and efficiency in his duties via creativity. Become too much of a man for her, show her appreciation, but lose interest from time to time. As men, we are not designed to worry about relationships or how she is enjoying the ride; it's about how much she misses you in the company of other men. All men will provide sex, money, and careers. She can get these things from any man; they are effortless to attain for her. Show her evolution, divine presence, respect and Alpha templates that exude raw masculinity. Then, she will indulge in your calm, relaxed state, making her feel safe to open deeply. Remember that nowadays, most women have their own money, careers or material possessions in check. So, man needs to refine (reinvent) himself and evolve as fast as possible by understanding oneself.
Proverbs 27:17 ESV Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another.
Male Frame-The spirit of man down to a science Contract-Attract-Generate-Retain Alpha, Water, the power of now (8 TO 12 HZ) Mans's relationship with Man
Gentlemen, many of us have been educated to use the Mind in a certain way to go unnoticed or stay within a focal point of reality by recognizing ourselves as just a pinpoint of our entire life. Remove the blanket made of accuracy and how you define yourself from an aperture of light into the frequency of Carbon-based reality. Carbon-based reality is the totality of creation, known and unknown. Within this reality, there can be a center, and this center is you. For example, the Mind is strange, a self-generating system in constant change, and emitting frequencies of light particles. The body is also self-generating in continuous change but is known to discharge carbon waves. Carbon-based reality is the anchor for the Quantum mind, Quantum body and Quantum spirit. Therefore Carbon turns Quantum consciousness into existence, and it understands the capacity to look through all facets of life with precise observations. For example, when our body contracts muscles, we activate tension, such as holding a heavy object in the same position. This tension strengthens the muscle fibres, allowing us to tune the body and connect to Spirit. The attracting component is the Mind, which can be focused into a coherent body, generating optimal conditions for improving competent masculine performance. Once this is achieved, we must retain our life force with a balanced feminine approach. I have found Alpha's frequency the most Stable and reliable while being ranked among beta, theta, delta and gamma waves. If you are venturing into the dating scene for personal transformation, you will need clear and coherent thought patterns to access a Woman's codes and blueprints. Also, do your best to keep the vibe high and mature, acquiring a network of women rather than a rotation. Finally, If you enter the dating scene for sex in the end, you will come out as a loser. The Alpha is a frequency and neutral state of consciousness; it's a bridge for all harmonics to cross. So when you are in that Alpha tone and anchoring Male Frame, you can neutralize Beta, Theta, Delta and Gamma. At times it may seem the Alpha's fate is to be lonely; because they are bridges to cross, not to stay. However, his design can be used for social links, strengthening conscious commerce and connections between people. Further, this man understands that he is the product of science first, then Spirit and the center of breath, calm, relaxed, yet alert with High intelligence. When anchored to his Biology, the divisions of hemispheres are balanced; he is coherent to the left, with rational, logical thinking and artistic and imaginative thought to the right.
There is a constant tone-setter when understanding Female Nature; it manifests as the Alpha and Beta frequencies through a woman's cycle. When her egg is ready for fertilization, she is Alpha and seeks Alpha's attention; after the egg dies, she needs beta. This fertilization process continues throughout a female's life until the eggs stop growing. Gentlemen, a Focused wife/partner leads to a Focused life. First, we must consider the normality of a woman's hormonal system to understand that they feel deeply, which can be a blessing to witness when managed effectively. Therefore, put time aside for education; you need to understand biology and female anatomy, so you don't become an emotional roller coaster. Typically, a coherent Male frame demands a competent female structure. This is because Estrogen attracts testosterone; the balanced woman will increase a man's test, enabling him to lead efficiently. To become strong leaders, men must stop pushing for women and transcend pleasure-seeking addictions. When the mind moves the body into unnecessary stimuli, it will deplete the male Hormonal system. These outdated masculine Templates can create an atomistic spirit (Theta) with a burst of rage (beta) set on a fast idle or autopilot.
Gentlemen focus on Mobility practices, teaching the nervous system to move with a range of motion strengthening the motor neurons and controlling muscle contractions; therefore, our organism evolves to anchor a full spectrum of electromagnetic waves. The spinal cord is an antenna, networking carbon waves with quantum particles and electrical pulses from neurons. Scientifically the male body was designed to serve two purposes, resonate and amplify. For example, a car's muffler system can work the same as the body; it's an echo chamber for the vehicle's exhaust. The resonator reduces the loud noises from the engine, making little sound. In summary, the body can be an acoustic resonator for many functions, such as fine-tuning other agencies like Beta and Theta. Our lifestyle choices, state of mind and training habits will determine how our nervous system adapts to the harmonics in Nature and the neural oscillation in humans. Remember, the brain can only focus on one function at a time; it appears to multitask because of its speed. However, it does not. Therefore, multitasking ideas and visions will lead to low dopamine and various degrees of adrenal fatigue. Furthermore, I studied with Mayan Elders in Yucatan, Mexico, and discovered that the earth emits electromagnetic waves, influencing our mindset at various day and night intervals. Our brainwaves change according to the earth's waves, dimensional retrogrades, lunar cycles and seasonal shifts. Each brainwave manages a variety of states ranging from sleep to active thinking; one will be more dominant and dynamic depending on the hertz. So, I suggest mastering the "alpha state of mind" (alert and relaxed) during our waking state. Boldly, the Alpha hertz has the highest output and manages to sort other oscillations. When the Alpha frequency is anchored in a man's body, his primary function is to guide all frequencies, maintain the bridge, and observe his frame. Thus, alpha conduct generates an Alpha body. Finally, what makes this man stand out is how he applies daily applications and maintains his presence.
Delta, 9 pm to 3 am - Delta brainwaves are slow, such as the car's deceleration when you step off the gas pedal. Also, they emit a low frequency, like deep bass or a drum. Delta induces healing; it's most active during deep meditation and dreamless sleep. Brothers, our testosterone levels will increase or decrease depending on our sleep state. When we stay up late, we feel sluggish the next day. If we get better sleep and feel better the following morning, the testosterone increases. Do your best to arrive in bed at the latest 10- 11 pm, no computers, phones or electronic gadgets, unplug electricity from your walls and shut everything down.
Theta, 3 am to 7 am- Theta brainwaves mimic drowsiness during our waking state because they often occur in a deep sleep. The dream state is where we hide our fears and troubled history that clouds intuition, our normal state of awareness. Therefore, 4 am - 6am is the perfect time for meditation to ground the Theta state of Consciousness before we start our day. Alpha, 7 am to 12 pm: During our sleeping state, our body detoxes; getting adequate hydration in the morning to flush is essential. Begin with a glass of fresh water. Sip it slowly in a squatted position and continue drinking up to 3. To squat is natural, and our organs settle in this position which helps us urinate and do bowel movements. Then if possible, soak up the sun and go for a walk to align the pelvis and spine. Even during a day of overcast, you can take in the glow. Then we can start our mobility practices, light exercises and stretching.
Beta, 12 pm to 5 pm - Beta is fast-acting, and when directed into a focal point, it is very productive in decision-making. Beta 1- Lo or fast idles. On the other hand, this state can turn into gossip or useless chit-chat. Beta 2- Seeking engagement, high. I like to call this the Facebook or Instagram phase, where time is spent on search engines looking through articles and databases to fill its high states of gratification. Beta 3 - extreme, complex. This state is crucial for the beta; it's integrative and increases dopamine levels when appropriately utilized. Its downfall leans towards a high processing frequency that takes energy from the brain and body, creating stress and anxiety. Slow down, focus on your face and allow a soft gaze into the outer world.
Gamma, 5 pm to 9 pm- Gamma brainwaves are high frequency, like a flute. Gamma offers good posture, healthy breathing, core strength, and control when anchors this hertz. It's essential to train the body during these hours; I suggest not exercising too late at night because hormone release may keep us up. Gamma brainwaves sort and direct information rapidly, so when our body is mobile, it shapes the essence of spirit and quiets the mind.
A hierarchy will always govern nature; it's internal. Gentlemen, with functional people, orders are safe and effective that provides platforms for stable structures and characters. Competition in rankings is regular for men; this is how we test and seek out competent leaders. Therefore, when we observe another man in a higher social position, we see this as an opportunity to work on ourselves; if we attempt to break him down, we better have an educated and practical reason. Please understand that successful people have the same fundamental limitations as everyone else. Basically, limitations are a guidance system; it brings us into humility. So, when you experience humility, keep it to yourself; let it teach you to become more assertive rather than directing it into disappointment and pleasure-seeking outlets. Brothers, healthy hormone levels are earned, not given. When our hormones are depleted, we push others to normalize. Be respectful, but remember that our physical body is designed to thrive with dominance over neurochemicals and secretions such as serotonin or dopamine. Ultimately, the more success, the more serotonin, the more tasks we complete, and the more dopamine. The outcome is a balanced hypothalamus with high dopamine and serotonin levels, thus creating confidence, good posture, and engaging life to its fullest. Benevolently, the hypothalamus links the nervous and endocrine systems via the pituitary gland. This part of the brain contains neurosecretory cells—neurons that secrete hormones. Thyrotropin-releasing hormone (TRH), Growth hormone-releasing hormone (GHRH), Growth hormone-inhibiting hormone (GHIH), Gonadotropin-releasing hormone (GnRH), Corticotropin-releasing hormone (CRH) and Oxytocin. Furthermore, women are attracted to the hormonal secretion, and its scents, like the unique grapes used inexpensive wines. Therefore, a woman carrying predominantly female power will be attracted to a man embodying masculine energy. In the end, poor posture invites oppression and shows a lack of hormones; these men often fight or create useless or uneducated competition, but we need to learn from each other and respect the hierarchy to achieve healthy hormones. Understanding the alpha man is essential rather than dismantling him for a reality of unity to be possible. So, brothers, I suggest sticking close to a few select men because maintaining strong-healthy masculinity is becoming challenging during these times.
Beta 'fast idle'12 TO 38 HZ
Another significant contribution that weakens a man's hormonal system is a masculine woman. I am speaking from a philosophical perspective because it is impossible to change a man into a woman and vice versa biologically. But if there was a way, it would start from philosophy and mind control. The problem is that women need to become narcissistic to integrate the qualities of a man, and the same applies to men attempting to incorporate the woman in him. In the early stages of narcissism, she will show a lack of empathy and a hunger for hyper realities of Masculine archetype exploitation. Gentlemen, when new age philosophy involving the merging of gender is enhancing in a woman, it's time to drop her while it's hot; she rarely outgrows her inflated sense of entitlement and only adjusts these traits to a shape-shifting environment. Masculinity is not toxic, and Femininity is not harmful; the philosophies are toxic if we look for toxicity. Man, Woman, Biology and Family will always follow the natural order; only after our bodies have decomposed will we be gender-free. Brothers, let's transcend the old paradigm of pick-up culture that has used the dating scene to seek pleasure and fuel the fire of immaturity. Try to minimize the focus on women; never place them in the center of your world; instead, keep your head held high and your posture confident. Although the cold approach in the dating scene can build social confidence and show us how to deal with rejection, I would advise not spending too much time in the pick-up game. Instead, focus most of your attention on the inward journey of masculinity and attract a life with vision and purpose. Remember, women are paternal top-down; they all reach for the high-value male and have various levels of swinging; it's natural to do so. But it's a matter of opinion because men will always run the bases with similar intentions. However, the majority of Women swing for the opportunity of acquiring material possessions, and most men do it merely for sex. I enjoy evolution and connection, so I learned quickly and grew exponentially, limiting sex.
Also, I enjoy the practice of monk mode; I find it liberating and progressive. I advanced in and out of it for over 15 years sustaining the fluids and anchoring the inward kundalina energies. When I did release it, I discovered that it made me weak in various developing regions but robust in others. For example, the practice of semen retention and fasting from female attention produced a more substantial body and stabilized the aura (like a balloon holding lots of air). In addition, I noticed that emotions and feelings neutralized on their own when they entered my awareness. Next, I woke up at night with sexual dreams and stopped them before releasing semen; this process taught me to pull the fluids up and reciprocate the energy through my body. For example, one night, I was visited by a multidimensional life form; she was naked and dressed in magic dust. She began to pleasure me; at the point of release, I jumped from the bed and pulled the semen back into my body. Aftermath, the energy elevated up my spine, and I tasted semen, I looked in the mirror, and my eyes had turned a golden colour, and my body a sweet aroma. While in Yucatan, Mexico, a Mayan elder taught me how to use the sexual life force with the earth. Whenever I experienced an erection, I sat naked with my coccyx rooted via long meditations that visualized vibrant ecosystems. But guess what? I got too close to God and the Great Spirit. When I arrived in Canada, several women with the glorious Dakini Spirit from Eastern Europe pulled me back. It was painful, and I lost it all; I was no match for the medicine of Shakti Humility.
Brothers, when the mind becomes restless, the body can't fully relax. So, slow your heartbeat and learn to breathe between the beats; make sure she laughs. But when she turns to emotion, go inwards, listen and put attention to your Male Frame, solid and self-confident.
Gentlemen, first, it's essential to understand the Mind and become allies to its modifications. To do this, we must acknowledge the seat of our power; it's called the observer. Second, the observer is the throne to a confident body where the Absolute resides and has full consciousness. Third, the Mind fears no loss, life or death; it borrows the necessary energy from the body for any given activity at that moment. Fourth, the brain is different from the Mind; the brain is the entire body, focusing on survival and protecting itself from language. Fifth, we will integrate the union of Masculine presence and Feminine nature, alchemizing theory into practice from this platform. Finally, in Sixth, the Mind is manufactured from the body, and then it manifests, resembling a window that opens outward, emitting vast Intelligence. Therefore, the window evolves into a peaceful mind when the body is gentle. You can observe a healthy or positive mind by the eyes and lines on the face. Also, Intelligence controls and directs the body, but the most skilled and adept can manage and oversee the Mind; they work together. Although our physical bodies are different in size, shape and appearance, we experience life uniquely. Regardless, the mental world works the same, tasting other characteristics of reality in fractal and Geometric projections. Like flowers, no two fractals are the same. Next, the Aura is an extension of the Mind, so Enlightened Intelligence exhibits a strong Aura that travels incredible distances. In addition, each object the Aura touches triggers a memory from past connections, and the body is the filter. In short, we are repeating the same situations, just cooking them differently to the Mind's tastes. For Example: when nature creates a fractal of lightning, it may look similar to the past, but each stroke of its brush is unique and different from the last flash of lightning. Moreover, our skin is the protective barrier of the organism, just as the Mind is the protective barrier to thought. Nature's elements and our body's sensory system experience life firsthand; secondhand language is observed through vocal expression. Just like the water turns to ice when it's cold, the sun melts the ice back into the water, and heat from the sun turns water into vapour and rain. Boldly, the Mind is the same as water but uses language, constantly changing the information to feed its needs and continuous evolution; it is symbiotic with nature. Ultimately, the best way to hold a competent male frame is to stay in the body, not the Mind. Be like a tiger; it drinks from streams of water, not from stagnant ponds.
Gamma ‘high frequency, virtuous’ 38 TO 42 HZ
The collective starts with the individual. So, Gentlemen, build your foundation from the body and study male biology. Fear manifests into existence from the collective Aura, not the individual man. Inside, there is no fear, just the organism and its anatomy. In addition, when we attain the wisdom of Biological sciences, we better understand our vehicle and how it functions. Brothers, we must use our intellect because there are dangers; the earth is not a safe haven; it hosts angry, hurt people and Loving, caring individuals. Studying Psychology, Philosophy, Theology, and Mythology to interpret human behaviour are excellent tools, but they are just entertainment without the foundation of Biology. In retrospect, while living with the Sinai Bedouins in Egypt, they advised me to trust God but secure my camel; this translates to perfect the body, the window to your soul. The majority seeks connections because they lack meaning or purpose and are confused, thus drowning in the collective ocean of feelings and emotions. Emotions are tricky to navigate; they are available to test our focus and discipline. So, brothers, if we plan on entering any relationship to take (emotional), we dig two graves. Also, if you enter into a business agreement or association with a woman, ask yourself, will I evolve in and out of her expectations? Women are an excellent source of fun, creativity, pleasure, and laughter, but this source can quickly swing in the opposite direction. Therefore, don't rush to put a ring on every finger that touches your Penis; know yourself first. Besides, the Penis is an Organ and a unique way to a man's heart; we are centralized and disperse our reality from a fixed location. Consequently, uncertainty arises when men pursue women from a centralized location; women are sensual; they operate and require touch via the whole body. Simply a woman's body is designed to reciprocate. So, gentlemen, don't rush the pleasure of sensuality; let the women come to you and show her an evolved presence. The essence of relationships moves us to master our past rather than changing the other. A balanced connection for men implies consciously utilizing logic to verify facts from moment to moment. Also, the anchored male frame can change practices and belief systems as new information becomes available with reason, mystical and logic. As a result, this concept becomes a reality by generating a multidimensional existence and, in my opinion, a man's destiny to emotion; we feel but act minimally. As a result, a new social alliance can be portrayed starting from the biological sciences and the spiritual philosophies for him and her. For example, in yoga philosophy, Krishna's flute is Gamma's body; the high-pitched sounds symbolize freedom, creation and the beginning of a cycle, Alpha. In Mohawk's native traditions, the drum represents the body, Delta; the deep sounds purify the mind and the ego, preparing us for letting go, Omega. When both octaves become balanced, we achieve stability.
Delta ‘low frequency, penetrating’ .5 TO 3 HZ
Brothers, there are three major components to a man's evolution: The wild prince to a lover-magician and eventually king. First, the prince anchors biological blueprints like the Alpha, Beta, Gamma, Delta, and Theta. 2nd, the lover integrates the feminine philosophy of expression, intuition, and creativity. Finally, he fortifies his Male Frame and exudes the wisdom that made him king. Accordingly, it is essential to recognize these archetypes through observations, precisely the relation of man to Science and woman to Mythos. Moreover, the competent masculine (Staff, sekhem-sceptre, straight) was created to anchor the Earth's interdimensional energies and scientific patterns in Egyptian mythology. The Feminine (Ankh, chalice, Circular) creates life within the material world, channelling the Mythos through social constructs. Ultimately, the origins of intent were that man and woman unify and integrate the most valuable parts of each other. In addition, we can witness this intent in Metatron's Cube geometric design; both lines and circles create a scientific pattern of expressive power. Suppose we were to study the ancients and recognize the wisdom of man and women in harmony. In that case, we would question the legacy of superior architecture and ask why we can't recreate it today. Ultimately, our ancestors acknowledged that relationships connecting man and woman were designed to learn about themselves and the individual; this was the foundation. So, to re-create our ancient legacy, a competent male will maintain his frame and fundamentally addresses how he can evolve and transform the environment from moment to moment. Thus, he strengthens his foundation and supports both men and women from the base of biological sciences.
Gentlemen, Love follows you everywhere; it comes and goes as it pleases. Love is visible and hidden; heavens on Earth, actual and merged, projecting from the organism. Unfortunately, in our present era, the consumption of resources has taken precedence over Love. Therefore, when materialism dominates, it usually discards the spiritual. The result is man's attempt to understand the difference between needs, wants and measures of success, then his outcome will be to focus on the simplicity paradigm. Once achieved, he will return to humility and honour, connecting to the Great Spirit of the Aboriginals or whoever his ancient roots are. In the end, if any person motivates themselves sincerely, chooses life as sacred and believes their worship is correct, they are. The will of Nature and its expression is present throughout; it flows within all things. First, the Sun shines brightly to see our neighbours, then the moon glows at night to integrate our day. If we keep to the rhythms of Nature, our Biology thrives. Try to see it as different people with different experiences, but underneath the religions and philosophy, we are in the same situation; Man and Woman are going to the same place. Ultimately, everything we take, do, or interact with can deprive our Body, organs, tissues, etc., and Aura. Therefore, to align with enlightenment's vibrational frequency, we must limit or transcend material consumption, the mind and emotion. When we vibrate in the present, refinement reveals itself from the space in between where action materializes into motion. Sometimes, we experience failure, but it's better to lose trying instead of failing because we did nothing. Gentlemen, singularity is inherent in Nature, so try to embrace it; I am not asking you to become withdrawn from others and society; I am stating that you will grow more efficient as a man. Here is an example; our organism has similar structural characteristics to plants. Each seed begins the germination process by rooting down and then upward; its entire consciousness reaches for the Sun; plants are not concerned with the other seeds lagging behind; they continue to grow. In addition, when germs evolve into plants, they start a unique process called photosynthesis. The photosynthesis application permits the plants to harvest and convert energy from the Sun, then use it as fuel to perform their duties beyond any rational, logical or theoretical discussion. Ultimately, the displacement of water and soil triggers a memory in the plant, thus affirming one agenda of Success and growth; the same applies to our Human DNA.
Theta ‘withdrawn from external’ 3 TO 8 HZ
On a more personal note, I observed my mother profoundly impacted my attitudes regarding women and intimacy. Once realizing this, I will not entertain women to impose unresolved maternal influences. Instead, I enhanced myself and took the emotional garbage to the trash; diaper-changing men are a turn-off for women. Gentlemen, these situations with your Mom need to be addressed because they dampen that wild, reliable, playful masculine energy. When you're with a woman and establish a leadership role, those unresolved mother issues need to stay out, be calm and relaxed. Therefore, Save the Beta man for your Mom; she will understand.
Sensuality and Sexuality can be the most active form of communication; when studied through love and meditation, sex was designed for connection. In other words, try not to rush the simple sensual and sexual activities; it's an act of sacred expression, and there's nothing to attain. Brothers, if you don't have time to perform this sexual art, it can be best to leave it and wait for another opportunity. In general, life is rushed, and that quick fix can enhance addiction rather than connection. Sure, being spirited and getting down in the moment is essential, but make sure you are both present for the beauty of nature when it comes alive. Also, sensual touching and eye gazing are fundamental parts of the experience. Intend long and alluring playfulness to create trust and bond; following this, she will ask you to take her on several occasions.
Further, biologically, her entire body is dynamic and receptive; she needs freedom and attention to get the ankh purring. But the most essential part is that a woman's domain is the bedroom; like a lioness, she can lead the entire encounter and dominate from the top. Gentlemen, the man's staff requires an erection for her whole body to circulate the energies, don't rush to release; rest, retain, play with her, keep the Mojo Rising and never look back. Besides, when our staff is engaged, we can mentally project and create the reality we wish; this applies to her also when she is circulating. Refraining from sexual activities (fasting) can lead to knowledge of sexual liberation and spiritual evolution. Additionally, spiritual growth can alter sexual life force, the outward-directed inwards. When referring to Tantric philosophy, I call this the outer masculine, inner feminine, the kundalini and Kundalina. Practically, to achieve kundalina, the inward expression of sensuality requires cultivation; when the process is mastered, we can address kundalini. Ultimately, kundalini, Kundalina will flow together, in and out, up and down the body's energetic system, master and servant. Finally, Sexual liberation or abstinence can weave a vibration that ignites gold, silver frequency, solar and lunar knowledge surpassing the physical garment. Gentlemen, our work is to maintain a competent Male Frame and an alpha state of consciousness while exploring theory and sexual evolution. This way, we can anchor the necessary leadership skills to maintain a high state of consciousness. Then, you can enjoy the other if you want to attract a partner.
In the end, male biology can only manage a certain amount of personal transformation, which needs time to recharge. Here is an example; we are all born with credit, the body; the Atm card in this situation is the adrenals. One day you go to the body (bank machine) and find out you have no more credit to withdraw (time). Simplified, be gentle with women and transformation, tread softly across the Earth, and respect the body; we only get one chance and one lifetime to perfect it. Brothers, society educated us to seek instant gratification, lesser or confusing motivations, not relationships. Therefore, each connection (socializing) you have with a person, place or thing creates a layer of memory in your mind (Aura); the more stories of gratification, the more confusion. For the untrained, these memories can generate frustration and pain, thus manifesting similar life experiences. In addition, as a result of socializing, most men have embodied Gossip and idle chit-chat; she is the one or Mom I attained a unicorn; she has the perfect past, the trophy wife. Besides, we learn from mistakes, but many of us are stuck in the addiction of entering more scandals and new relationships to fix the last.
A prime illustration is the New Age, twin flame and soul mate paradigm; these are excuses to dump unresolved trauma on each other, its relationship bypassing distracting us from meaningful experiences with the self. Consequently, when an opportunity arises to enjoy the company of another, we may be too distracted by the fantasy to take notice.