Mans Posture and his mother With functional people, hierarchies are very safe and effective. It builds stable structures and character. Hierarchy binds our physicality together, keeping our molecules tight and dense the outcome secure immune systems. When we outwardly attack hierarchies without proper educational platforms, we tear this down in us (live in the world but not of it), creating weak immune systems and environmental disorders. Competition in hierarchies is normal for men; we are looking for competent leaders. When we see another man in a higher social position, we see this as an opportunity to work on ourselves. We are educated to understand that successful people have the same fundamental limitations as everyone else.As men, we need to transcend the old paradigm of pick up culture that has used the dating scene for making a woman attracted to us. When this is accomplished, it will move us into a new dating system of a better version of ourselves. This will create a robust and confident spine and erect posture. Try to minimize the focus on women, address our hormones healthily, stay in your body the center of gravity and never place them in the center of your world. Feminized women with healthy estrogen levels will become attracted to you, a natural by-product of a healthy spine and straight posture. The cold approach can build social confidence and teach us how to deal with rejection, but I would advise not spending too much time in the pick-up game, focus most of your attention on the inward journey of masculinity and attract. The outward journey or seeking care repels. As men, we need to create a life with vision and purpose. This way, when a woman does show up, she will sit a while to try her life out. Women are paternal top-down; women like to sit on the beach; most women do not come into a man's life to build a living; they come in to lay on your beach like a Mermaid out of the water to the ground on a warm rock in the sun. We need to be that rock and understand they will swim back out to the sea onto another rock. Each woman will have different ripples or levels of swinging, but they all swing. It's a matter of opinion because it takes two to tango, and there will always be men who run the bases with similar intentions. The only difference is that men are designed differently and can secure archetypal connections to the mother to slow their process down. Women swing for the opportunity, and men do it merely just for sex. We need to take into consideration attraction levels. The more physically attractive the person looks, the more freedom to swing.
In June of 2014, I shut down my practice and healing centre and moved in with my mother and stepdad. I did this for two reasons; I found out that a relationship with my mother can profoundly impact my attitude towards my romantic relationships with other women. There was no way I would engage in these many spaces with a woman and impose any mother situations on them to process. I would be a man and pick up the emotional garbage myself within the space I occupy at all times; diaper changing can be such a turn off for a woman. These situations need to be addressed for all my brothers out there because deep down inside, this can damper that wild, primal reliable and playful free masculine energy when mommy comes into the room. When you’re with a woman, those issues need to stay out; we need to be calm and relaxed for that playful, healthy masculine to bring a woman into her most profound satisfaction in life. I would have to take charge of that pure Shakti energy within myself because those lower templates were starting to move up into my higher chakras knocking at my door to come down and integrate my relationship templates. We will now move into building a healthy self-esteem archetype with the mother and relationships with women. To all my brothers who are following this thread, keep that wild, powerful sensual/sexual masculine energy alive at all times. Brothers, our Mothers can be seen as the first and most constant tone-setter of what a woman can be through our relationships on all levels. Men who have not integrated and solidified those unresolved issues from childhood can have them reappear in the intimate attachment of relationships with self and our partner, and this can cause significant depletion of our prana/Lifeforce. Your female counterpart wants to hold your hand to birth through the divine Magnificence of the masculine. When accomplished, man's very foundations will shake below our feet when the Shakti of the feminine rebirths within the masculine. All the mother issues that have cluttered within the mind reincarnate every time we are with a woman; again, we need to stay calm and relaxed because it’s not our mother in front of us. You don’t want that epic woman wiping the drool from your mouth, telling you to put on some deodorant because you stink. These situations can severely influence the kind of women you chose and how the women treat you. Besides, why give a woman a boy to care for when you can give her a man. My mother is a woman, just like any other woman on the planet, with rights and values and created the body I reside in. I save my beta templates for my mother; she will understand and respect them more than the woman who did not birth me. I can connect to a sense of gratitude for the great gift of a physical body she has given me, and this allows the ample amount of space for the other woman in my life to embrace and take me into my sexual and sensual peaks that a mother can’t. I have been able to balance out those areas and fully express myself as a gentle-man in the bedroom and outside of it, but more often, I enjoy lots of time in the bedroom. Through this process, I will perfect my next carnation body and do the best to Honor the father and the mother while I continue to shake the Shakti free from the foundations of self-created illusion in me.
Let her go I finally got it. I was put into a position to work through all of the foolish Monogamy templates within my aura, so I could get back to me and enjoy a healthier, lighter blend of relationship with myself. It would take the slightest deviation out of the Monogamistic mind frame to break the spell, and the alchemic Incantation of Polyamory would bring me back into a space of Neutrality. The pendulum would swing the other way to rediscover my fulcrum point. I would achieve this healthy attitude and lifestyle through celibacy. In other words, engaging in many relationships with a woman but sharing my passion through the Tantric arts of sensuality, intimacy, and friendship and keeping my Prana/Life force active through the process. I was schooled by different dakinis in the scared art of manners and courtesy towards the woman; they taught me to respect a woman’s right of power and choice to be in a relationship or not with me. They also taught me not to take her shit either and to have firm boundaries in the freedom I would offer the woman that came to me. Because of this, I was able to branch out my light and embrace the ancient earth. And breathe in the haunting of apparent sin. One woman, in particular, showed up at my door and would rise to the occasion, guiding me deep into my being; she came in and out of my life with the majesty and ferocity of a storm like no other. I began my Pirouette of Polyamory on December 21st, 2013 and would anchor it all in by December 2014. Standing in a healthy space of Neutrality, I was able to grow in either direction that would best suit my service-oriented attitude for myself and the earth. In other words, Let me Love myself to discover love. To all my brothers out there, try your up best not to give fool’s gold to a woman and remember they are a unique symbol of the earth. Laugh with her in front of you until both your ribs get sore. If you can make her laugh, you can make her do anything. Use her laugh to heal her body, the planet's water, trees, plants, mountains, air, and all the animals, big and small. Her laugh will echo through the cosmos and birth new stars to shower heaven on earth.Now we will dive deeper and anchor into the culture of polyamorous and monogamous relationships within the self. I am a passionate game-changer of transformation looking for every chance to catalyze the Ultimate Relationship with the body, nature, earth and the female gender that entre the alpha domain frequency that I embody. As for the brotherhood, I support their process of discovering that primordial alpha man with themselves and do my best to raise their Daka twice as much as I grow my own. I can be very balanced with science and spirit, bringing both worlds into the equation of any fact-finding expeditions I embark on. Through trial, tribulations and working with the denser shadow sides of myself, I have found that if I enter any space or room with the ancient code of man, there must be particular virtues of care and diligence in supporting the other brothers within the pack. When I come in blazing and lighting my staff (sceptre) axis Mundi style, I need to burn there’s ablaze. Also, when I do this, I discover deep connections with the body and everything around me. We all come from and swim in the same water pool; we may give the river oceans and lakes names, but to water its water. Whether we enter relationships through one partner or many and give titles like polyamorous and monogamous but to nature and the self, there all relationships, the language can be what creates the separation.
Both relationships require a deep understanding of the self, boundless amounts of maturity and dedication to drop all the mental constructs when the insecurities arise to be present for graceful and loving communication with yourself and your partner. From these males, heartfelt perspectives, I would suggest creating a level of trust, intimacy and presence with yourself first for an extended period before you even think of engaging with many. This takes incredible amounts of courage and humility if you do end up sharing your heart and hand with another while exploring someone else, just as it would make the same to manage your energy with one. You want to surround yourself with equal or higher vibration with similar intentions for the relationship and personal growth where both or many partners come out a winner; please remember both relationship views have their ups and downs. The physical realm has been teaching me about choice and co, creating with spirit; because of this, I am very persistent at choosing who I engage with and not. I just don’t run after every woman I feel sexual or sensually connected to regardless of the relationship or the magnetism we or I may feel. Those feelings don’t own me, and I don’t rely on the partner I am engaged with for happiness levels. Happiness is my concern, not hers. I tend to choose relationships with a woman that can be highly sexually charged to experience the wholeness of relationships where desires and fantasies are met. My advice can be to consciously choose one to be intimate with and explore that connection. The seed within a man or the womb within a woman IS a very sacred portal into creation. The energy needs to be clear and crisp. If you have multiple partners, that means numerous layers of reality that will need to be navigated through and processed correctly to ground and anchor who you are and have been through the process of exploration. Love follows appreciation (Beauty), and the most important thing is that you don’t try to hang on to what is now moving out of your life; this is possession. Possession is a one way trip into creating a toxic ecosystem in the body. I would laugh with my brothers as they would chase after her heart. I would say okay ill embrace her mind. When you can deal with her mind, she will feel safe enough to share her heart. Many things can shift around a woman. They happen inside and outside but remember the things that will matter the most and hold the highest integrity as a man can be how she views and loves herself.
A personal note about myself and the topic of sexuality: from time to time, I make decisions to fast from sex and build upon emotional and intimate connections until I find that firm commitment from myself and a partner, in other words saving myself for a more in-depth experience. Men need to take time and fast from sexual encounters because this experience energetically binds to our prostate for many years: the more contacts, the more mess and confusion in our sacred spot. It all began back in 2012 when I explained to my partner that I wanted to shift the experience of our relationship from working with sexual desire into a more service spiritual-based intentional relationship. To take time to clean the residues or build-up of experiences we have been creating with each other. I also explained to her that I would stop releasing my fluids and fast from that too. At that point, we choose to go on different paths; a relationship no longer engaging in sexual activities was not an option for her and rightly so. It began, and I started my fast alone and noticed a massive shift around three months. I began to get stronger, and my body began to gain more muscle, my thought process and problem solving strengthened, the odours and fluids in my body became sweeter, and my eyes began to change into a light honey colour. The outside world of sex and desire no longer had control over me. I was about to discover that this place could be the most conformable throne to sit upon as a man able to engage a woman her beauty and not plant a flag pole or take her Prana. I started to reflect on my past experiences of sexual conduct ten years back and compared them to what I was experiencing in my new lighter state. I came to this heartfelt conclusion, and when I was engaging in sex without friendship, intimacy, love and deep connection, it would slowly kill the body and soul. This next part was unexpected as I became quite the item, almost like a spiritual playboy. I was tested big time; many women came to engage in relationships with me, mainly younger attractive women. To them, it was like a sport, and for myself, I proliferated. It seemed like God was playing a joke on me, laughing at me as I got closer to his throne in the sky. The closer I got, the more woman came. I was not used to this; I was excellent in my practice as a one-woman person, wanting or searching for that one to share a union with. This new change for me caused a lot of pain. It broke down the Disney paradox of betraying an imaginary woman that has not yet arrived. Still, I kept going into uncharted dimensions of reality. One woman that came to me for a relationship told me that maybe I need to be with many to find the one I was looking for. Tears ran down my face with sadness because at that moment, I knew where I was going, and when I go, I go all in. The woman that came would express similar language; don't worry, she will be here soon, it’s not me or I’m not the one for you, but someone is coming very soon but in the meantime, let's connect and practice. I would open and begin to give all my heart and soul to each woman as they would show up. Through this process, I got to open. Still, they would then cast me aside when I wanted to discover an intimately close relationship; it was all worth it as I found with myself. Through my female teachers, I found out that there is a level of responsibility from both parties when you open yourself to someone. I'm very persistent and don't give up easily; through all of this, I grounded into my practice and transformation while ushering in this stronger male template, things began to unfold, and I found a Key. The essence of my transformation may not be about transforming the women in the relationship but more about embracing me.
I was just over nine months sustaining the fluids and anchoring the inward kundalina energies discovering this practice not only made the physical body strong but would also make the aura secure (like a balloon able to hold lots of air). I also noticed that all those emotions and feeling centers would begin to neutralize on their own when they came to the surface/awareness. At night I would wake up with those wet dreams and catch them before I would release them. Through that process, I learned how to pull the fluids up and through the rest of my body. While I was In Mexico, the Mayans schooled me in using the sexual energies for the earth, and every time I would get an erection, they would sit me on the ground naked, and I would give it all back to her to create a sustainable life for all creatures and plant life. I practiced this a lot before I even went near another woman. But guess what, it would eventually happen I got to close to the big man in the sky, and the great spirit had other plans for me as my ego(mind) would get just a strong as my Aura and Body, so in came the many women with the glorious Dakini Spirit. Before we go there, I just wanted to mention a little more and give another key for the brothers reading this. I had to go right to science, the earth, and the physical body as quickly as possible to protect myself and keep any dignity I had left as a man; alas, I would eventually fall into the emotional body. A Key- Brothers, I say this with the utmost respect for the female energies, do your best to make peace with the suffering and limitations many women will provide for us through the trip inwards.
When the mind becomes restless, the body can’t fully rest and relax. This notion can be fundamental only because to engage in a relationship with the self and this male’s situation, enjoying a woman's company, you need to be in the body calm and relaxed. Why would the mind make a brother restless in the first place? I would take a lucky guess and eat my humble pie with this statement; maybe it’s the power of a woman and how she commands a man to be in the body through intuited eye contact and touch. The woman’s gaze can open man and, at times, descend him down Alice’s rabbit hole to feel out his views on how to treat or commit to himself fully. As men, we need to understand and ground into our hearts the logistics of the thought reality matrix. Understanding or thinking it out can be one way to sense and navigate our reality, but when we bridge the soft, intuitive, wild, primal shakti, we become competent men. The gates of the earth are open; the fruit has turned ripe and able to be picked as we enjoy the freedom and wisdom of the ground below us. The brain's network, ecosystem and sensory system have an immense and dramatic impact on how you view the progressions that we create in our reality. Remember, over 350 trillion cells within the body, pay attention to that and witness shiva and shakti free within you. Brothers Slow your heartbeat down and learn to work between the beats, then let her do what she needs to do to make her happy, pay attention to your Male frame and do what you need to do to make you strong and self-confident.